Having the Talk
How Do I Talk to My Child About Zoomerang?
The conversation matters more than the settings. Here's how to start โ but every family's conversation will be different.
For ages 11-13: "I know you're excited about Zoomerang. There are some people online who don't have good intentions, especially towards children your age. If anyone ever makes you feel uncomfortable, come tell me immediately. You won't be in trouble."
For ages 14-16: "Everything you post can potentially be seen by anyone, forever. University admissions and future employers do look at social media. I trust your judgement, and I want to make sure you have all the information you need."
Red flags to teach them: Someone asking for personal information. Adults showing excessive interest in their daily life. Requests to keep conversations secret from parents. Anyone wanting to move conversations to other apps.
These are starting points. In consultations, I help parents work through the specific dynamics in their family โ the child who shuts down, the one who argues every point, the one who agrees to everything and then ignores it.